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Please note that you can avoid adultery. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it. Carelessness is one of the major cause of affair in marriage not devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So follow the following *simple rules* you will never fall into adultery. 1. Never make anybody of the opposite sex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions. If you do that is the beginning of invitation to adultery. 2. Never be with anybody of the opposite sex at the time your spouse must never know you are there. 3. Never talk evil about your spouse in the presence of anybody, they will know you are not happy in your marriage and take unnecessary advantage of that situation by showing you fake care, fake love and try to give you what you lack with your Spouse and destroy you. 5. Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and spouse you visited. 6. Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse,...

BE PREPARED, THIS STORY WILL MAKE YOU TEARY-EYED. MAKE SURE YOU READ TO THE END AND PLEASE HOLD ON TO THE LEARNING POINT. Just two years after our marriage, hubby brought up the idea of asking Mother to move from rural hometown and spend her remaining years with us. Hubby's father passed away while he was still very young.Mother endured much hardship and struggled all on her own to provide for him, see him through to a university degree. You could say that she suffered a great deal and did everything you could expect of a woman to bring hubby to where he is today. I immediately agreed and started packing the spare room, which has a balcony facing the South to let her enjoy the sunshine and plant greenery. Hubby stood in the bright room, and suddenly just picked me up and started spinning round and round. As I begged him to put me down, he said: "Lets go fetch mother." Hubby is tall and big sized and I love to rest on his chest and enjoy the feeling that he could ...

Do not surrender your future to a stranger. make the person your friend first to know if the person can tolerate your dark side.  Do not double date. You are called unto honor and integrity. Give it all it takes to make your relationship work per time. If it is not working, put it in prayer. If no change, then end it honorably.  Do not conc l ude before you go to God! Some people already create idols in their heart before going to God.   Do not take anyone for granted: this is because every human have self esteem, dignity and respect they must preserve. Do not be too fast to introduce you partner to people: be wise so you do not destroy the relationship you built. Just give it time to grow, before telling your friends about partner. Do not compare yourself or your relationship with others. It is very dangerous to reduce to the level of photocopy when God has made you original, such that others can admire you. Do not neglect your physical appearance....

★ you gotta love her on her bad days when she is moody and irritated, just as much as you love her when everything is going well ★all relationships go through bad times, but real relationships get through bad times ★ it's so beautiful how we find people who can make us feel so happy, even at the times when we don't believe in happiness at all ★ if she's important to you, show her ★ If someone doesn’t value you, they deserve to lose you. It’s that simple. ★ it's kinda attractive when someone can reply to your sarcasm with sarcasm instead of just getting offended ★ The saddest part in life is saying goodbye to someone you wish to spend your lifetime with. ★ The best relationship is when you can act like lovers and best friends. ★ s/o to the boyfriends who love their girlfriends unconditionally while she’s still learning to love herself. y'all are appreciated and rare ★ As a boyfriend u should always make sure your girl is good. U should always be...

Everything would have been fine if we lived in the same town/state/country," is the common reason many men and women give for a long distance relationship not working out. Admitted, distance can put an enormous strain on a relationship, but claiming that "distance" is the only reason a relationship didn't work out or can not work is putting your han ds over your ears and shouting, "la-la-la-la-la-la- land" because the truth is too much to handle. I've met many men and women who won't even try long distance relationships because according to them "Long distance relationships just don't work". That simply isn't true! Long distance relationships CAN and DO work if the two individuals involved want it to. In my opinion, the question is not "Do long distance relationships work?" but rather "Do both of you want to make it work?" If you both want to make it work, distance is just another obstacle that two people who ...

1st SECRET: the power of THOUGHT. Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to con...sider their needs and desires. 2nd SECRET: the power of GIVING. If  you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and ...unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take. 3rd SECRET: the power of RESPECT. You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask ...yourself, "What do I respect about myself?". To gain respect for othe...