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Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a thiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”. Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched? Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE! It was God (our creator) who set that blood- filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening. Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day. This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges into this woman shall only be able to d...

1. Make friends with successful people and occasionally buy them gifts and surprise them with lunch because successful people always give and hardly get, so when you give them, they value the gift a lot. 2. Get a mentor and follow his instructions and respect the relationship. Never beg your mentor for money or disrespect his or her privacy. 3. Make new positive friends as often as possible and ensure you keep the communication line open. 4. Create a network of friends and not just connections. 5. Show kindness to everyone. Some small boys today will be big boys tomorrow. The biggest dog in the neighbourhood was once a puppy. Keep the information/secret to yourself. 6. Always plan ahead and be proactive. He that plans the future works less in the future. 7. Listen to speeches and messages from great teachers, both religious and educational. 8. Attend seminars and trainings on any area you need to improve yourself - Train the trainer, personal development, public ...

Stop saying men are only looking for ladies to have sex with. It is not absolutely true. Even if a brother is a fornicator, do you think he's stupid? Your arrogance, anger and poor self conduct would never attract a man to stay with you. Many sisters are still thinking like their great grandmother then you want to marry a charismatic brother. You are not tolerant then you want to keep a man. No! Spirituality is not stupidity. Until you embrace scriptural truth of submission and shamefacedness you may not get marry. You will spend 7 hours on Facebook while you can't spend 1 hour to pray stretch. You think brothers are fools even a fornicator isn't stupid. What are you doing with your life that would make a brother consider you marriageable. Pray! Social media is not a match maker only God is the unmistakable connector. Be warned! Be careful! If husbands are scarce , why are young men disturbing married women? Work on your character and deal ...

For the sake of argument let's forsake the fact that pre-marital sex seems to be a sin. What's done is done, but how do you address the little girl in the street with a baby bump?? Do you look at her like she's cursed just because she had intercourse?? Or because she is a teen under eighteen who's expecting? Do you ever think about the other human being she had sex with?? The one who told her - "Don't worry, it's only pre-cum. "Don't be scared, I'll use a condom." Cause the last time I checked a girl can't make herself pregnant, so check yourself before you start being judgmental. Some guys be like - "I heard she was a beautiful liar, though her hips never lied." "Right now the only truth her hips can tell is the fact that she's fat with child." When it comes to teenage pregnancy gender is the only agenda. Two genders - one has a vagina, the other uses viagra. ...

Keeping sex out of your relationship is not the quality that makes it godly! Any disciplined atheist can keep a no sex relationship without knowing the Lord, so how does that make yours different? Remember you made the decision to rebuke sin when you became born again, premarital sex was on the list of things you promised to let go until marriage, so keeping sex out of your relationship should be a nature to you, it is something you should naturally do with or without a relationship, because chastity became the God nature in you the moment you accepted Christ. So stop acting like you're doing God a favour by keeping away from sex, no you ain't. Some be like "Uncle Alli our relationship is God centered, we have not had sex" Eheeen? Were you supposed to have sex before? Is sexual purity not supposed to be a part of you the same way you don't celebrate brushing your teeth and taking a bath in the morning? There's so much we need to learn ab...

I have been in relationships & I've found out that love alone does not guarantee the success of a relationship. Love alone cannot help you stick to one person. In fact, Loving someone does not guarantee not falling in love with another person. Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, It works out because of emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence & self discipline. You see, times will come when you will see people that are better than the one you're in a relationship with. In those times, Love will not help you but Self control, Emotional intelligence & commitment will. No matter how you feel for someone, the person you are committed to, ranks first in your life. You think married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!. But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is a great arsenal to dest...

Getting married to a legal practitioner is a good decision and it earns a lot of respect for the spouse in the society. Lawyers take pride in their profession so also the person that is married to them but there are serious facts to know before you tie the nuptial knot with that lawyer. #1. Lawyers Are Argumentative in Nature : There are some traits and characters that people exhibit as a result of their professional training. Lawyers are not left out of this and the nature of their profession tends to make them stubborn and argumentative. They look at every issue critically and reason differently. So, don’t try arguing with a lawyer because you can never win an argument against a lawyer. #2. They Base Their Views On Facts And They Can Be Secretive : Lawyers are fact finders. So, they base their views on facts gathered which are often referred to as a point of reference at every given opportunity. They can be secretive because of their access to classified information about thei...

Do you love your girl and you don't want another man to snatch her from you? Then do the following things: 1. Give her plenty of attention. If you give her attention, she will not seek for attention elsewhere. Chat with her online via social media or else another man will. 2. Give her listening ears whenever she is speaking to you. Avoid pressing your phone or reading a newspaper when your girl is talking to you. 3. Do not promise her and fail. Do not promise her what you cannot do. It is better for you to say you don't have than to promise and fail. 4. Do not be stingy. Avoid telling her that you don't have, you don't have all the time. 5. Be caring. To be caring does not only mean you should be giving her money. There are many ways of showing care; e.g show concern whenever she is sad or in problems; be by her side when she is in problems, do not abandon her in her days of sorrow. 6. Tell her daily that she is beautiful. 7. Tell her daily that you love her. 8. Play ...