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A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 5 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 61. You blow up or hot in anger and say things that hurt your spouse. Later, your head cools down but foolish pride will not let you apologize or mend fences with your spouse. Over time, why do you wonder when your spouse’s heart is cold towards you and why joy has become a stranger to your home? 62. People ask “Is there anything like love at first sight?” That is an easy one. The trouble is when that love does not grow to increasingly become commitment if you marry that person out of love at first sight. 63. If you must buy her expensive gifts and struggle to keep her as a girl friend, what will happen if you marry her and can no longer so spend on her because of many financial needs? Shouldn't you rather test that out now? 64. She keep...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 4 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 46.    Tell yourself this everyday "No lady out there is better than my wife." You don't know what you don't know. Cultivate your own garden and make your wife whatever you want. 47.    It's good to attract a man with your beauty. But when the man comes close can he see more than outward beauty in you? 48.    If you knew that choosing a spouse is choosing your future you will know you need every help you can get in making that decision. 49.    The love you both had when you married is not enough to keep a marriage. You must continue to pursue your wife. 50.    People change with time. If marriage is not an adventure to continue to know each other it will become a boredom. ...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 3 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 31.    If he is nice to you but not nice to anybody else, he is nice to you for a reason, not nice as a person. 32.    Most verbal and physical abuse has its root in poor communication skills. 33.    In the long run, she will not respect you more than she does her father and he will not treat you better than he does his mother. 34.    Why on earth will you marry a man who thinks women are necessary evils or have little  respect for women? 35.    If you want to build a happy home don't use a harsh word when a soft word can do. In relationship 99 percent of the time a soft word will do. 36.    If you want an enjoyable marriage, don't marry the man whos...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. Here are 15 nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 1. You cannot beg someone into loving you. 2. If thou fall in love and find out he is a lazy man thou must quickly fall out of love with him that thou dost not imperil thyself by marrying a lazy man. 3. The woman who is developing herself is a threat to the husband who is not improving himself. 4. Marriage is not charity and must be mutually satisfying. Therefore, thou shalt not marry out of pity. 5. Relying on your spouse to make you complete is an unrealistic expectation and a setup for disappointment. Only Jesus can make you complete. 6. Thou shalt not get into a new relationship to get back at your ex or prove that you're still desirable. 7. After a breakup you must make sure you're healed before entering a new relationship. 8. If he cannot hold himself now befo...

This was a complain I got from a fan on my Facebook page sometimes ago. Hi Save My Relationship , since 2011 I have moved from one heartbreak to another. Every time my relationship ended, it was because I caught my partners cheating on me. I have therefore concluded that "ALL MEN ARE CHEAT!" My reply. You see, your personal experience on society has a way of creating notions that can affect your mindset like "ALL BEAUTIFUL GIRLS ARE UNFAITHFUL, ALL THE GOOD WIVES HAVE BEEN TAKEN, ALL LADIES LIKE MONEY, ALL MEN ARE CHEAT." The issue of all men are cheat is not NEW. It is as old as mankind. Men have been created by GOD to sexually active. But not all men are cheat. It is clear and not statistically proven and there is no empirical back up or verification to the notion that all men are cheat. The difference with the men or women that cheat is either traced to the "LACK OF VALUES OR LACK PF PROPER BOUNDARIES." We need to be careful with our c...

A couple had been married for several years without a child. For the purpose of companionship, they bought a Rottweiler puppy, named it Hatchi and loved her like a child. The dog had access to all the rooms in the house. The puppy grew to become a large, beautiful dog and had on several occasions saved d couples from robbery. Hatchi was always faithful, loyal and defended its owners against any danger. Seven years later, the couple was blessed to have the long awaited son. They were very happy with their new son and decreased the attention they had been giving the dog. Hatchi felt neglected and began to get jealous of the baby. One day the couple left the baby sleeping peacefully in his cradle and went to the terrace to prepare a roast. They were shocked as they were heading to the nursery and saw Hatchi in the hallway with a bloody mouth, wagging its tail. The dog's owner thought the worst, pulled out a weapon and immediately killed the dog. Rushed to the ba...

1. Be Financially Open: As a woman, never hide your worth from your husband. There was once a man who married a woman, and they both stay in a rented apartment.  Secretly, the wife started building a house and never told the husband about it, but somehow the husband got to know about the wife's building through his friend but he never asked the woman about it. On a certain day, this man called his wife and told her that he's tire of the current environment and that they need to relocate. The wife agreed as proposed by the husband.  On the D-Day, the husband rented a van that can only take the woman's luggage and claimed they will have to pack 2-3 times. As they drive and approach their new house, the woman asked her husband about the new house and why it is in the location where they approached. "Don't worry" replied the husband. As they got to the street, the woman shocked again and asked her husband where the building was. "We'll...

What is so important about early morning prayers.....? 1) Prayer in the morning is so important because you meet God before you meet the Devil. 2) You meet God before you meet the circumstances of life. 3) You talk to God before you talk to many people. 4) You fellowship with God before you fellowship with other people. 5) You hear news from Heaven before you receive any breaking news. 6) You sit before God before you sit before people. 7) You kneel before God before you kneel down before men. 8) You Honour God before you Honour people. 9) You get into His Presence before you get into the presence of people. 10) You feed your Spirit before you feed your body. 11) You  call Jesus before you call all other small names. 12) You see Jesus Christ before you see yourself in the mirror.  13) You sweep your heart before you sweep your yard! So, beloved, wake up and open your mouth and fellowship with your Lord Jesus! Prayer is a powerful weap...

1. Rejecting food when there's an issue: Mr husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refused to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome. 2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head: May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head. 3. Issuing threats: beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of di...

I'd love to tickle my wife while she's doing house chores. I'd love to hear her say "I beg leave me jare", in a romantic tone while I'm putting my lips on her neck. Can my wife and I play like nursery school pupils? Can she jump on me while laying on the bed to whisper into my ears, even if the matter were to be something meaningful? Can I do "pillow fight" with her in the bedroom? Married folks should be free with each other enough as to chase one another about in the living room. I was once in a female teacher's house while I was a boy. Her police husband arrived home. They exchanged greetings. Later, while the woman was teaching me Maths, her husband threatened to give her injection. The man took a pen and gave a short chase. The woman giggled while she ran back and forth. She said "Where did you even get your injection?" She came to me to continue the lesson. In my very young boy heart, I wondered; "How sweet marriage is....

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1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1) 2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12) 3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13) 4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish. 5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22) 6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24) 7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33) 8). Never blame y...

1. Call him by a pet name. 2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family. 3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt. 4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology n explain why you behave that way that annoyed him. 5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" when ever you offend him, insist on his forgiveness, appreciate and kiss him when he does. 6. Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings. 7. Honor his matter. 8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be sure that he will do same for your parents. 9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no money at hand and never delay his food. 10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because u may lose him to her. 11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him. 12. Smile when you look at him and give him occasional pecks when you are out sociall...

My dear Jack, you’ve got to summon up courage to ask her out. You’re going to die in silence wishing for her if you don’t summon the courage to ask her out. Granted if she says no it’s going to hurt, and damage your pride a bit, but what if she says yes! You keep dancing around her, circling like a wagon in a Western B Movie, imagining all sorts of scenarios in your head. You’ve seen her going down the aisle with you, even seen her having a baby for you. You’re a couple in your dreams. But dreams don’t produce a wife. And all the desire in the world will not produce a marriage. Ask her out. If you don’t bite the bullet and ask her out, you’ll be friend-zoned. She’ll be the wife you never had. You don’t want to watch another man take her, do you? You’ll have regrets. Right now you’re like a sub on the sideline getting ready to come on the pitch as the referee is about to blow final whistle. If she says no, laugh over the whole thing with her. Make fun of yourself. Continu...