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IF YOU DON'T WANT YOUR MARRIAGE TO BE HELL - PART 4





A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 4 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage:


46.    Tell yourself this everyday "No lady out there is better than my wife." You don't know what you don't know. Cultivate your own garden and make your wife whatever you want.

47.    It's good to attract a man with your beauty. But when the man comes close can he see more than outward beauty in you?

48.    If you knew that choosing a spouse is choosing your future you will know you need every help you can get in making that decision.

49.    The love you both had when you married is not enough to keep a marriage. You must continue to pursue your wife.

50.    People change with time. If marriage is not an adventure to continue to know each other it will become a boredom.

51.    Don't borrow to fund your wedding. Why start your marriage with debt hanging over your head?

52.    The proper foundation for a joyful and strong marriage requires sincerity - don't pretend you are who you are not.

53.    If you already have a child, at an appropriate time disclose this in the relationship. If s/he really loves you s/he will still marry you. If s/he does not it's still better that s/he walks away. The person meant for you will love and accept you and your child.

54.    Everyone has inadequacies. The more you can set yourself free by loving yourself unconditionally the more attractive you can become.

55.    Marriage is for two adults in understanding but children at heart. Keep a simple unsuspecting and pure heart that can play and laugh a lot and easily forget wrongdoing.

56.    When your heart is cold toward your spouse it's time you go for a marriage check up.
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57.    You're using sex to make your husband to do what you want. Are your a prostitute?

58.    If you're not continuing to grow in your love for each other, you are either enduring the relationship or your relationship is nominally existing.

59.    Two self-centered people make a terrible marriage. If one person is self-centered the other would be carrying a heavier load. Marriage is best for two givers.

60.    Every marriage has shared values and glaring differences. Both are to strengthen the marriage. With wisdom you will make the differences work for the good of your union.


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