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Creating magical moments in your relationship is something everyone thinks about, but few people do. Perhaps it’s because they actually can’t think of exactly what to do. Here are ten “acts of love” that you can do with and for your partner to bring a little more romance into your relationship. 1. Make your morning time special by bringing your partner a cup of coffee while he or she is still in bed. If you’re willing and able you can also serve them breakfast in bed. It will make your partner feel cherished and the kindness will be returned. 2. Make the time at the end of the work-day when you first see one another extra special by giving each other a 10 second hug and kiss. You will both feel more deeply connected throughout the evening. Also remember to touch your partner affectionately throughout the day, not just when you want to be romantic. 3. Make time to make-time. Plan a romantic rendezvous during the week. You can get a room at a local hotel o...

Fighting with someone you love is a wretched, sometimes devastating experience that can have serious repercussions on the relationship. Even after the fight en, remnants of the conflict remain: negative thoughts, low energy, depression, and so on. Perhaps the worst feeling of all is guilt and worry about how your unkind words affected your partner. It is important to understand that not all conflict is necessarily bad; in fact, it can even be healthy. Couples, especially couples during the early phases of their relationship, will butt heads – a byproduct of evolving intimacy. Couples married for years will disagree about something important; potentially leading to an argument. Specifically, we want to equip our readers with some basic knowledge on how to prevent (or stop) a fight with your partner. 1. ADMIT WHEN YOU’RE WRONG AND APOLOGIZE Apologizing when you’re wrong is one of the simplest and most effective ways to prevent or diffuse an argument. Yet, many...

A woman on phone[ Source/westafricalifestyle.com] You need bae to regard you as his priority. However, he appears to be excessively occupied with work? The absence of time together with your man can influence your love life in various ways.  It doesn't mean you relinquish everything to be with him.  Keep in mind; there are bills that need to be paid at the end of the month. You should figure out how to live with a busy man. 1. Learn to be independent : You have to understand that your man needs space. His activity is similarly essential. Limit on the number of messages and calls you make to him once a day. Give him some breathing space, and he will most likely miss you. 2. Discover something to keep you occupied : If your partner is too busy, then you additionally need to discover something that will keep you occupied also. Make a rundown of things that can fill your day with the goal, that you don't stress over...

A sad woman. If you keep asking him whether he loves you then things are not okay. [ Source/hhnaijarivalry.com] Love is a free gift and should come naturally. There are times we force things to happen in our favour. According to  RelRules , things don't always work out in most relationships where only one person is committed. Here are signs you’re forcing yourself to love someone. 1. You make all the plans alone Planning alone means you are alone. The other person does not care. It becomes an individual effort to make things work. Love is a two-way traffic.  2. You are the only one calling Does your partner call you? How many times does he/she call you? If you are the only one calling, something is wrong somewhere. He or she should also call you daily for the relationship to work. 3. You keep confirming If you keep asking him whether he loves you then things are not okay. Confirming your fears means the effort seems not to bear fruits. His...

1. He respects you. If your boyfriend loves you, he would not force you to do things you do not want just to fulfill his desires. Also, he will respect your decisions and not compel you to follow his. He would honor your principles and not cause you to compromise. 2. He is patient and not rude. A man who truly loves you would be patient and gentle despite you being annoying sometimes. Let us admit that women are so unpredictable and emotional. Sometimes, we become so whiny and noisy. However, if a man truly loves you, he would understand your moments and keep himself from being rude to you. He does his best to remain a gentleman even in your tantrums. 3. He is humble. In connection to being patient and gentle, a man who loves you will keep his pride down. Love would make him selfless to the point of being humble when you are at the peak of your pride. When in a conflict, even if it is not his fault, he would choose to be the one to say sorry just to patch things up. His ...

Every case of lack of love is different that the other. Are you asking about love between  friends? Spouses? Siblings? Parents and children? Neighbours? I will sum up a list of possible reason all in all: Psychological personality disorders, such as psychopathy, sociopathy, narcissism, et cetera Individualism. The modern lifestyle is shouting out for individualism. “Love your self”, “You are the unique individual in the universe”, et cetera Not receiving the average amount of love and affection from parents during childhood Violent childhood Selfishness Bad love experiences. As in the person might have faced rejection, manupilation, abuse, etc…Not receiving love and attention from other individuals Facing emotional and sexual rejection from the partner, in case of spouses Being treated as a less-valuable individual than other people. People do not love themselves. Before one can love oneself, one must understand the true definition of love. Love is unc...

A major determinant of a relationship is intimacy, but somehow, most couples find it hard to be open to their partners.  Opening up to another person can take time as it requires trust. People find it hard sharing their experiences, especially situations that affect them a lot. However, for a relationship to work out perfectly, the couples need to be open with each other. For this to happen, you need to have strategies on how you can make your partner open up to you. This is because one cannot force his or her partner to share something that he/she is not ready to share. 1. Ask an honest, direct question When in doubt of something, it is always good to ask a direct question to get answers. Same to this scenario, when your partner seems to be hiding something, it is advisable to ask a direct question to clarify the issue. 2. Share your own vulnerabilities Some partners can’t easily open up until you prove to the...