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You meet a single and very successful lady. Her name is a brand. And she's obviously worked long hard years to build her brand. Everything clicks and you love each other. You propose and she accepts. She's a stunning beauty, brainy, God-fearing, well-educated, excellent cook and noble character. Everything you want in a wife. But, she insists she would not drop her father's name in marriage. Mind you I'm not saying she will use double-barrel name. She just wants to keep her name as is Would you still go ahead and marry her knowing if she keeps her surname it will be a win-win for both of you as she will be happy and her name will continue to open doors for you and her? I want to hear from you.

SECURITY & RELATED MATTERS 1. Release of 106 Chibok girls, as well as over 16,000 persons in Boko Haram captivity. 2. Tackling insurgency, decimation of Boko Haram in the North East. 3. Recovering 14 local governments and territories previously under Boko Haram control in the North East, rebuilding lives of citizens there; about one million displaced persons in the NE have returned to their communities in two years of this administration. 4. Curbing the incidence of kidnap across the country. (Arrest of kidnap kingpins and dismantling of kidnap cells across the country) 5. Restoring morale of the Nigerian military; re-organizing and better equipping the Nigerian Armed Forces. 6. Purchase of 12 Super-Tucano aircrafts worth $600 million to aid the Nigerian military’s current operations in the North East. 7. Ensuring continued peace in the Niger Delta through consistent funding of the FG amnesty programme for ex-militants. 8. Introduction of an improved mech...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do and do it. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 17 of this weekly series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 211. When you marry a man, you come under his authority. Never marry a man who is not under an authority (e.g. father, pastor) himself. It will be disaster if you do so, as he has no restraining influence over his life. 212. You’re quick to claim you’re the head. Yet, you don’t provide the leadership to get her satisfied, sexually. She has even repeatedly asked that you both go get help but you refuse. Why is your ego getting the upper hand over you to the ruin of your marriage? 213. Don’t marry a man whom pride or foolishness cannot allow to admit he needs help or receive it from you. 214. The wife of a lazy man will find it hard to be happy. If by sheer willpower she makes up her mind to be happy, she still cannot be proudly married ...