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Sex is not all about making children. You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Seduce your husband, don't always allow your husband to ask for Sex, there must be no timetable for sex. Be creative, don't be predictable. Give him what he wants. If you loose influence over your husband, you have lost womanhood. Be part of your husband plans. Don't have too many children, you wanna sell them ? Allow your husband to check in and out anytime. When a man is sexually satisfied, he is emotionally stable. Stop saying, is it food ? Yes, sex is food !!! As a wife, try to invest in yourself spiritually so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as his prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life. Don't allow your husband to provide all your needs, he is not a money making machine. Iron sharpens iron, try to reciprocate. You are meant to support each other spiritually, financially, physically and morally through ...

The makeup you wear can make you attracted to him, but what you are made up of, which is from your inside can make you ugly or beautiful or your inside, and that is your CHARACTER. So, here are some reasons why you are ugly to a guy; (1). YOU ARE NOT REAL: Guys like girls who are real. Don't pretend to be what you are not. Be down to earth, be REAL, be SELF CONFIDE, NO FORMING. He hates it when your name is Onyinye and you say it's #Mhz_SlayQueen You give false location such as VGC, LEKKI, LONDON, PARIS, DUBAI, etc when you are never close to those locations. Be yourself. Being ORIGINAL is better than being a PHOTOCOPY and besides................be proud of yourself. Be proud of who you are, your mom, dad and even their names. Be proud of the school you attended being a University, Polytechnic or even College of Education. "I no say make you no form oooo but no over do am" (2). YOU DEMAND TOO MUCH: No guy is obliged to meeting all your needs. Only J...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 12 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 166. Taking a blood oath with your boyfriend is a path to tying you down and enslavement. Your brain must be nuts if you agree to do it. 167. You will attract who you are, not who you want. 168. Cohabitation (living together before marriage) or trying out each other for sexual fit, does not build but hurt marital success. 169. The Proverbs Chapter 31 Woman is not only a wise women. She is also a woman of strength, spiritually and emotionally. If you're not strong from within you may not be able to walk in wisdom from without. 170. The survival of a marriage requires that both people do not get crazy at the same time. 171. Stop thinking that for your to win your spouse must loose. Marriage is not a zero sum game. Whatever helps and ...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 10 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 151. You can weed out many unserious men not worth your time early in your relationship by requiring them to see your father or your pastor. 152. Have a good self esteeem. If you don't you already start from a losing ground in a relationship with a man. He will treat you according to the level of your own self esteem. Only few exceptional men will treat you better. 153. When children come you don't need to divert your love for your husband to the children. Love is elastic. Let your love just expand to include the children. Time is coming when the children will leave home. If you disconnect from him now you hurt the future. Be wise. 154. Many a marriage has crumbled because the boy could not grow into a man capable of being joined to his w...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 10 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 136. Your decision on who to marry ranks high as one that will affect your life irreversibly. When a divorce happens, the people involved never get back to where they started. Are you getting wisdom on how to make that decision? 137. In a funny way, the story of Adam joining Eve to eat the forbidden fruit after Eve did can teach you that where your wife misses it or messes up big time, you don't use that as justification to cease from being joined to her. This further confirms God's idea of marriage being for life. 138. What makes you think there is any difference between having sex with your boyfriend and what a prostitute does? Talk of calling pig meat pork in order to allow it to be pleasant to be eaten. 139. The problem in your mar...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 8 of the series are 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 106. Marriage is great if both people see it as a place to practice unselfishly loving another person and living and doing things not for what s/he will get. 107. Marriage will reveal you to both yourself and your spouse - whether you are generous or me-minded. It's better now to practice being your best self and to be honest in relationship as what does not work for one eventually does not work for both. 108. If you do not have a space in your heart, thoughts, time and deeds for me, how can you say you love me? 109. A healthy relationship gives each other space to be themselves. 110. Marrying someone with the hope he or she will become a better person (if you love him/her) is a sure way to disappointment in marriage. 111. You want God to help...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 7 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 91. It may not be possible to avoid pain but misery is optional. Unforgiveness retains the hurt. 92. The love that does not trust is defective and corrupted love. 93. Jealousy is bad but indifference is worse for jealousy has love tinged with distrust and fear whilst indifference is the death of love. 94. There are different shades of love opposites: distrust, indifference, resentment, unforgiveness, bitterness, hate. 95. Love that does wrong to your spouse is either immature or corrupted. 96. If a man loves you, he will do everything to marry you. If a man lusts for you, he will do everything to sleep with you. 97. Ladies, if you set the bar low, most men will not raise it. 98. A man who cannot withstand family pressure is a poor...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 6 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 76. Sex is good but should be a plus to your marriage. If not, how can your marriage survive without sex, like during illness and when apart. 77. For every one physical affair, there are at least three emotional affairs. Don't think that emotional affairs are harmless. Emotions are a part of us. When the heart is divided or has shifted, something is dying. And you will feel it, except you are no longer alive. 78. If you marry a dependent person, get ready for a high maintenance marriage. 79. If you must fight to keep your boy/girlfriend, would you not have much more fights if you marry him? 80. Many marriages are in trouble because we have boys in men's bodies. 81. In marriage, if it is not working for both of you, a day of reckon...

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 9 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage: 121. When your husband is messing up with another woman or beating you, yet he tells you not to tell anybody or else your marriage will be over, you are living in slavery and must speak up if you will be free. 122. When you are so busy loving your spouse and working on making your marriage work you have no time left to worry or fear divorce. Then, divorce is a word that does not exist as far you you are concerned. 123. A marriage without much laughter is a marriage without much joy. If there is no laughter in your marriage could it be you are taking yourself too seriously? 124. When you endure without hope that powers joy, you cannot have strength to do the enduring and you cannot endure with the right attitude that can bring change to your marri...