IF YOU DON'T WANT YOUR MARRIAGE TO BE HELL

IF YOU DON'T WANT YOUR MARRIAGE TO BE HELL - PART 12

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 12 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage:

166. Taking a blood oath with your boyfriend is a path to tying you down and enslavement. Your brain must be nuts if you agree to do it.

167. You will attract who you are, not who you want.

168. Cohabitation (living together before marriage) or trying out each other for sexual fit, does not build but hurt marital success.

169. The Proverbs Chapter 31 Woman is not only a wise women. She is also a woman of strength, spiritually and emotionally. If you're not strong from within you may not be able to walk in wisdom from without.

170. The survival of a marriage requires that both people do not get crazy at the same time.

171. Stop thinking that for your to win your spouse must loose. Marriage is not a zero sum game. Whatever helps and builds up women, helps and builds up marriage. Same too for men.

172. Don't let "I love him" make you stupid to break relationship principles or it will break your heart.

173. Any relationship or marriage that cuts you off from your family is set to destroy you.

174. The way to fall in love with your eyes wide open is to know who you are, what you're worth, what you want and set up boundaries before you fall in love.

175. Girls must have sense ahead of boys or they'd be done for. I expect an 18 year old girl to have the sense of a 30 year old man.

176. Like at the beginning so it continues today. The man was not deceived, the wowan was. Women are more susceptible to deception in relationship than men. To protect yourself, a woman will do well to put on Christ.

177. If "I love him" is making you stupid and hanging around a wrong man just know that it will not compensate for his wrongness, laziness, irresponsibility or lack of self-control.

178. You will still need your family even after you marry. You will ever remain the daughter or son of your father and mother. Family do and must have a say in who you marry.

179. Can I tell you why you may not know God's will on who to marry? If you're rebellious and not submitted to following His will, He most likely won't show you. The purpose of knowing God's will is to obey not to decide to obey. Therefore, make up your mind to be open to do whatever He tells you.

180. When it comes to listening to parents on marriage, some ladies behave like sheep led to the slaughter. You will just wonder if they still have anything inside their heads.

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