A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 6 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage:
76. Sex is good but should be a plus to your marriage. If not, how can your marriage survive without sex, like during illness and when apart.
77. For every one physical affair, there are at least three emotional affairs. Don't think that emotional affairs are harmless. Emotions are a part of us. When the heart is divided or has shifted, something is dying. And you will feel it, except you are no longer alive.
78. If you marry a dependent person, get ready for a high maintenance marriage.
79. If you must fight to keep your boy/girlfriend, would you not have much more fights if you marry him?
80. Many marriages are in trouble because we have boys in men's bodies.
81. In marriage, if it is not working for both of you, a day of reckoning will come. If I were you, I will not wait for that day. I will search and research for ways to make it work now.
82. Anger from your spouse indicates he still cares. When he is indifferent, love has died.
83. Some complain of a jealous spouse. Would you prefer an indifferent spouse?
84. Be sure your relationship will not be static. Just like life, marriage has its highs and lows. Great marriages don't just happen. When you are not actively growing together, you are passively growing apart.
85. What pulls you apart can strengthen your relationship if only you knew what to do. If you don't know reach for counseling help.
86. Marriage is not a master-servant relationship. Marriage is a place to serve one another.
87. When you get married you lose your right to your independence. You must now pursue a mutual interdependence.
88. A marriage dies daily; a marriage becomes stronger daily. Your marriage certificate is simply a public acceptance that you can now start living together and to start pursing life together.
89. Be sure of this, marriage will not remove your need to control your sexual urges or to turn away from being attracted towards the opposite gender.
90. Irreconcilable differences is because the people involved decided it so. In a marriage "where there is a will, there is a way" is still true. Anything can be forgiven, if you really want to. It may hurt. It may take massive and prolonged work. But there is hope for every troubled marriage.
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