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Scripturally coined and coupled. The word "Eden" is an Hebrew word for "where God dwells", therefore the first thing God gave man was "His Presence". 1. So, the first thing a man needs is NOT a woman; it is the Presence of God, and a woman should meet him in the Presence of God. Eve met Adam in Eden. He has to be a child of God. He has to have a relationship with God just like Adam. 2. The next thing God gave man after putting him in the Garden was WORK. (Gen. 2:15). God gave man work before giving him a woman. That means a man needs a job before he gets a woman. God's priorities are very clear. He must be working or pursuing a purpose or vision . 3. The third thing God told man was "Cultivate" that is, the ability to cultivate. Cultivate here means, bring out the best in everything around you, to maximize the potentials of everything and everyone around you; to make everything fruitful. He only said that to the mal...

You have heard that money issue, infidelity crisis and incompatibility brouhaha are the major causes of marriage failures. But there are other silent killers of marriage that need to be taken care of to ensure that marriage does not go stale or suffocate. 1. INABILITY TO APOLOGISE In the past, the assumption used to be that inability to apologise when wrong was a male problem. That was an era when it was truly a man’s world. Marriage was treated as a relationship between a master and a servant. But modernity has changed everything. Today, women are competing with men over who should take the trophy on the inability to say: “I’m sorry”. The inability to apologise or make amends is a big problem that weakens marriage gradually. The people who have this serious problem think that it diminishes them to apologise. Most times, they are also the people that believe that they can say or do anything that pleases them. Ironically, they love to receive apologies with a passion. They...

I want to change some ladies' mindset today. You see, men are not dogs. Not all of them are mad. They are not all sex maniacs that once they see you, they descend on you and finish up before you could open your mouth and say no. Not all the men on the street wants to get into your pants. I'm going to be real and down to earth with this article. The way some ladies complain that men are always asking them for sex really baffles me. Why sex, why not marriage proposal? Why do men always want to sleep with you? Why is it that every single guy who asks you out is always hitting you for sex? Why won't they marry you unless they have a taste of the forbidden fruit? What is the problem because this is a big problem! It is not something to be proud of, if all what men see about you is your body and nothing more. It is a cause for alarm! 1. CHECK YOUR DRESSING A female's body means nothing to her. You are used to seeing your breasts and every soft body part all your life. It ...

There was a girl in my village, her house is just adjacent to mine. While in Junior class, she got pregnant and dropped out of school, she couldn't finish her education. By now, probably, she's a mother of 2 or 3 just because she got into a relationship prematurely, at the wrong time. Am I saying that pregnancy or being in a relationship is bad? Not at all, but the timing. I love the way NIV puts this portion of Bible, in Eccl. 3:1 , " There is a time for everything and a season for everything under the sun ". There's time for everything, a time to be alone and singly pursue your dreams and a time to be a relationship . And verse 11 of that same chapter says that when you do things at the right time, it's perfect, an ideal and rewarding. When you eat an unripe mango or cashew fruit, it'll hurt you. Likewise an untimely or premature relationship. Let's highlight some of these dangers... 1. BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP PREMATURELY CAN SHATTER YOUR VISION...