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5 THINGS EVERY MAN NEEDS BEFORE A WOMAN



Scripturally coined and coupled.
The word "Eden" is an Hebrew word for "where God dwells", therefore the first thing God gave man was "His Presence".

1. So, the first thing a man needs is NOT a woman; it is the Presence of God, and a woman should meet him in the Presence of God. Eve met Adam in Eden.
He has to be a child of God. He has to have a relationship with God just like Adam.

2. The next thing God gave man after putting him in the Garden was WORK. (Gen. 2:15). God gave man work before giving him a woman. That means a man needs a job before he gets a woman. God's priorities are very clear. He must be working or pursuing a purpose or vision.

3. The third thing God told man was "Cultivate" that is, the ability to cultivate. Cultivate here means, bring out the best in everything around you, to maximize the potentials of everything and everyone around you; to make everything fruitful.

He only said that to the male. That's why God will never give a man a finished woman. The male was created by God to create whatever he wants.

The woman you are looking for doesn't exist; she's in your head. Your job is to take the raw material you married and cultivate and groom her into the woman in your head. So you have been married for 20yrs and you still don't like the product you get, that's your fault.
If your wife is putting a little weight and you don't like that, don't criticize her; it's your job to wake her at 6am, "Hey baby, let's go jogging".

You don't like her dress? Take her to a boutique and buy her clothes you like.
She can't speak good English? Send her to school and pay her tuition fee. CULTIVATE HER!!!!

4. The fourth thing God said to man was, "Guard the Garden".(That is, he must have the ability to protect you) The man has to be the protector of everything under his care.
That's why God gave you a stronger bone frame. A bigger muscle mass, not to abuse the woman, but to protect the woman.

5. The last thing God gave man was his Word. God told man not to touch the tree; God never told the woman about the tree, NEVER!!! Which means it was the man WHO received the word of God and his job was to teach his wife the word of God.

Nothing frustrates a woman like when she asks her man "So what do you think" and the dummy answers "what ever you think is OK" or keeps quiet. ..Giving Silence...mmmm.
Don't do that bro, don't do that. She's looking for knowledge and direction. That was the last command God gave to man in Genesis 2:1.
In Genesis 2:18, God said, "It is not good for this man to be alone". Now, don't just read the statement fast, read it again slowly, " it is not good for THIS MAN to be alone".


WHAT MAN???
The man who is:
So, here's the
1. In His presence
2. Has a job (purpose)
3. Can Cultivate you
4. Can protect you
5. Can teach you.

If you meet a man who doesn't like God's presence, isn't working, can't cultivate you, can't protect you and can't teach you, then IT IS GOOD FOR THAT MAN TO BE ALONE!!!
These are the primary things you should be looking out for in a man.


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