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A sad woman. If you keep asking him whether he loves you then things are not okay. [ Source/hhnaijarivalry.com] Love is a free gift and should come naturally. There are times we force things to happen in our favour. According to  RelRules , things don't always work out in most relationships where only one person is committed. Here are signs you’re forcing yourself to love someone. 1. You make all the plans alone Planning alone means you are alone. The other person does not care. It becomes an individual effort to make things work. Love is a two-way traffic.  LATEST JOB VACANCIES 2. You are the only one calling Does your partner call you? How many times does he/she call you? If you are the only one calling, something is wrong somewhere. He or she should also call you daily for the relationship to work. 3. You keep confirming If you keep asking him whether he loves you then things are not okay. Confirming your fears means the effort seems not to...

Men cheat more than women. It may come as cold comfort to women scorned, but they don’t seem to do so with the same intention as women. Cheaters, specifically repeat cheaters, tend to be opportunistic and capable of emotional compartmentalization. Some men may cheat because they are unsatisfied, but, as a rule, men don’t cheat because they are unhappy. Men cheat because they think they can get away with it and because they’re willing to let themselves get away with it. Cheating is, strangely, a behavior that can make it hard to be a good father and husband, but also a behavior that isn’t actually correlated with familial love or care. There are many things that trigger this trait in men... Here are some..: 1. Some men are just naturally sexual insatiable and will always hungry for sex in the body of any woman that gives him way. 2. Some woman have the attitude of punishing their husband with sex and at the end resulting to the man going outside to get himself. 3. This may ...

There are stages to falling in love being Friendship…its the essence of any relationship. If you get attracted it goes to stage 2. If not, then friendship is the best phase. You can fight and argue and talk, laugh and share. And be friends for life…lean on each other.. being Infatuation.. its a threshhold between frienship and love.. its the start of the stage 3 , it may stay that ways till you dont feel anything more.  Physical attraction, talking all the time, becoming more comfortable are a few. You still argue and talk, exchange opinions. It is said infatuation is experienced for 18 months to 3 years. In between, if you really find someone more attractive it fades away. But friendship still stays. being Love.. its less obsessive, less possesive,more absorbing,more calm,more positive. Its gradual..more loving each other…committed like. Its too early to decide if its anything for now..give it time.. stick around..give chances..trial error type...

“How are you?” “What do you do?” Innocuous questions. And terrible conversation starters . That’s what Gary Burnison, the CEO of the global consulting firm Korn Ferry and author of the new book Lose the Resume, Land the Job , reminded everyone when he explained what not to ask when meeting new people . Instead, do the following: • Ask a lot of questions . “People spend most of their time during conversations talking about their own viewpoints and tend to self-promote when meeting people for the first time. In contrast, how question-askers—those that probe for informati from others—are perceived as more responsive and are better liked,” noted a recent Harvard study. • Ask a lot of thought-provoking questions . Forget “What do you do,” especially at a work-related function. “The question quickly sets a boundar around the conversation that the other person ii now a ‘work’ contact,” says author David Birkus who instead suggests “What’s the best thing that happen...