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10 Questions You Should NEVER Ask Your LOVER

Most articles on what not to say to your partner circle around avoiding taboo topics and off-limits prodding. While those tips are certainly helpful, there are deeper, more cutting questions that are even more crucial to avoid. If all you do is steer clear of these 10 questions, your relationship will be dramatically more fulfilling and rewarding than average. “What’s wrong with you? Why are you always doing that?” It’s never a good idea to make a negative judgment or a blanket condemnation of your partner. All that does is reinforce the exact negative behaviors you’re trying to change because your judgments incentivize them to isolate from you. Rather than attacking your partner personally for what you don’t like, share what you do like and how you would feel or do feel when they do those things. You might have to get introspective and creative to find out why certain things are so important to you. For example, let’s say they often leave the cap off t...