A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 9 of the series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage:
121. When your husband is messing up with another woman or beating you, yet he tells you not to tell anybody or else your marriage will be over, you are living in slavery and must speak up if you will be free.
122. When you are so busy loving your spouse and working on making your marriage work you have no time left to worry or fear divorce. Then, divorce is a word that does not exist as far you you are concerned.
123. A marriage without much laughter is a marriage without much joy. If there is no laughter in your marriage could it be you are taking yourself too seriously?
124. When you endure without hope that powers joy, you cannot have strength to do the enduring and you cannot endure with the right attitude that can bring change to your marriage.
125. Worry changes only you and that is for the worse. Stop thinking your marriage will bring you happiness. Marriage is simple what you and your spouse bring into it. When you become a happy person, your marriage has the chance to become a happy one.
126. However long you court, whenever you marry you are still marrying a stranger and must need patience to continue in a lifetime of understanding and adapting yourself.
127. Doubt and suspicion kill a relationship slowly. It does you no good to express doubt and suspicion. Address specific behavior backed with facts and evidences.
128. If you let divorce be an option in your mind, your mind will increasingly consider it as an option when the same mind could find other better solutions.
129. Sex is good in a happy marriage but a marriage that cannot survive sex is in a bad shape already.
130. You've been in a relationship for some years and you keep believing his story he tells you that he's waiting for money to marry you. But to take the simple step of coming to see your parents he has not taken. A step that only costs his boldness and seriousness. Keep wasting your life.
131. Some people can't quickly make up their mind. If you are going to help him, don't be like him, be clear on what you want and stick to it.
132. You're asking how can I know a man loves as if love can hide. If you listen to your heart, you will see it in his eyes, in his voice, in what he does.
133. A person in love does crazy and stupid things. That's why they call it "falling in love" and that is the trouble with love. You are done for if you fall for the wrong person who does not deserve your heart. Before you've gone far, listen to the voice of your head - a father (figure).
134. Love does not like to be abandoned. Whilst you may not know how you fell in love, you certainly must work on staying in love.
135. The advice you are listening to is either helping or hurting your marriage. If your marriage is shaking, why should you be hanging around people who are divorced or having bad marriages?
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