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IF YOU DON'T WANT YOUR MARRIAGE TO BE HELL - PART 15

A great marriage is not far from you. That's if you know what to do and do it. If you don't, it can become hell. In this Part 17 of this weekly series, I bring you 15 more nuggets of truth to help you in your (future) marriage:

211. When you marry a man, you come under his authority. Never marry a man who is not under an authority (e.g. father, pastor) himself. It will be disaster if you do so, as he has no restraining influence over his life.

212. You’re quick to claim you’re the head. Yet, you don’t provide the leadership to get her satisfied, sexually. She has even repeatedly asked that you both go get help but you refuse. Why is your ego getting the upper hand over you to the ruin of your marriage?

213. Don’t marry a man whom pride or foolishness cannot allow to admit he needs help or receive it from you.

214. The wife of a lazy man will find it hard to be happy. If by sheer willpower she makes up her mind to be happy, she still cannot be proudly married to him.

215. If you’re thinking that doing everything without penetration is okay and not sin, your heart is already filthy and filled with lust.


216. To marry someone who finds it hard to forgive is to live your life in misery and hell.

217. Problems in marriage happen when things that should not matter matter and the big picture is lost.

218. Why would you marry someone you’re not proud to introduce to people?

219. Marital unfaithfulness by man or woman is destructive. It erodes intimacy and is a stab at the heart of your spouse. It’s worth it to fight to keep the bed pure. For those who’re in the mix already, recovery is painful but possible.

220. Virginity is great. But, don’t rely on virginity to make up for lack of character. They are different things.

221. Why marry a man when you can’t imagine your son being like him?

222. If sex is all you think about when you see a woman, your heart and mind are polluted. I pity any lady who marries you in that state - you only value her for sex to satisfy your lust, and not love.

223. Sexual fulfillment is really important for marital happiness. If your wife is not being sexually satisfied, how do you want her to be happy? And if she’s not happy, how do you want to have a happy marriage?

224. You don’t have time for God and you don’t care about obeying His written word. Yet, you want to know “who is the one.” Please do have some sense and surrender to do God’s will. God reveals His will to those who want to do His will.

225. Communication is both a glue and catalyst of other ingredients for a great marriage. It makes for understanding. Communication skill resolves problems when they arise. The better communication gets in your marriage, the better the marriage can become.

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