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10 Common Time Wasters That Cripple People




You are a winner and more than a conqueror. So go all out there and smash your goals without seeking permission from anyone except God.

Be strategic, be sensitive.

Stop procrastinating, don’t just trust God, take action.

Be a calculated risk taker & be responsible for your actions. Living in Nigeria today is a risk. So, you own your result. So create the result you desire.

Everyday I am opportunity for you, leave your comfort zone & your excuses; remember your bills are increasing. 
Strategize! strategize!! strategize!!!


Here are some common time wasters that cripple people:


1. Procrastination: We have many PhD & MSc holders in this field. It is the thief of time. Stop it today & intentionally fight it. Seek professional help. They are out there. They can help you.


2. Complaining: Check your complaint vault, is it not high time you say it's enough?. How many times has your complaints pushed you to get result or think through solution? It's time to repent!


3. Perfectionism: This is one of the main reason why we still have many bachelors or spinsters out there. It has prevented a lot of people from realizing their great goals... It just keep drawing them backward because all they seek every time is perfection. Learn to know when to adjust.
Nothing on Earth is created perfect, you just have to fit in and make it perfect for you, reason while all five fingers are not equal but they work together to when they grip something.


4.  Lack of priorities: When everything become a priority for you, then you need to review those things. Priority will trigger your focus and help you to be more productive! Wake up and set your priorities right base on level or urgency.




5. Fear of failure: Is there anyone here who have not failed before? Raise your hand and lets pray for you that the day failure will hit you. You will not breakdown flat... Sound funny right?. 
Failure is not a sin. It is a proof that you have tried something. Learn from the previous failure and be strategic this time. It should not stop you from trying.


6. Wanting to please everyone: Even Jesus did not please everyone. Don't expect everyone to love you equal or show you the same love as you showed them. So if you please everyone and you keep dying inside, you are on your own.


7. Dwelling on the past: You are not the first person to have a bad or rough past. You will not be the last. So the more you dwell on your past. The more you give it life. You can always learn from it but not to dwell in it. The Bible says, remember not the former things.


8. What will people say: If I leave my career, what will people say? These things have weigh down many people out there. Your worry should be what will Jesus say or do and not people’s criticism. Criticism is part of life, you act, you will be criticized, you didn’t do, they will still criticize. You win or lose, people will still criticize you. So wake up and stop listening to people. Cheers!




9. Low self esteem: You will think despite how exposed our generation is. Why should some still battle this. Today they compare themselves with others, tomorrow they limit themselves with their own belief, etc. self limitation, self doubt, etc make them limited to their comfort zone. Now is the time of salvation, seek professional help. Its a time waster!


10. Lack of Hunger: What’s your WHY for trying something or for wanting to get something done? If it is a strong one like a matter of life and death, there is this extra strength that will always be available for you to do it and you won't give up. Same strength and energy is what you need to apply in getting things done. Create a STRONG WHY for yourself! This is why you see some of us sacrifice our night to get some results.

Hope it’s worth your precious time. 
Thank you for reading through. 

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