BEFORE YOU QUIT YOUR RELATIONSHIP THINK ABOUT THESE

Take your time to read this. Never leave a serious relationship because of a few issues that can be resolved or ignored. Remember there's no one who is perfect in everything and every way.

When you write-off people because of their imperfections, first take a look at yourself and question yourself if you’re flawless, think of the next person you’re going to date, won't he/she find you also imperfect somehow?

How will you feel when he or she dumps you just because of one flaw?

What if you find your next worse than your ex?

Will you also dump that person because he/she doesn’t tick all your boxes?

Then when will that
habit of picking and dropping lovers end?

Think of the years that are going, you are losing each and every chance that comes your way simply because you are looking for the perfect person! My friends, there is no Mr. and Miss. Perfect on earth. If you are thinking of letting go of your caring, patient, loving understanding, trustworthy dude or babe, think twice before you decide. Someone is out there admiring your man or woman and wishes to replace you one day. Someone is out there praying for your break up, some are your friends pretending to be your best friends.

Come on, solve those disagreements, give your lover privacy if it’s what he or she needs, if it needs ignoring some things please do so that you keep your relationship going on, and feel free to apologise when you’re in wrong, be a good listener, don’t entertain certain rumors, use your brain and follow your heart.

Be God fearing, appreciate what he/she sacrifices for you even if it’s small cause that is what he/she can afford. Be proud of your lover and make the best out of your relationship.

Have a smooth relationship ahead.

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Thank you 

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