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14 RULES FOR COUPLES FOR BEING MAD



1. Be mad at me, but don't insult me. Anger is not a ticket to speak carelessly.
Anger is one thing that has destroyed more relationship than cheating. Learn to control your anger over partner. One thing that causes serious injury between partners in relationship is negative words. Control your anger.



2. Be mad at me, but tell me why you are mad. Don't assume I know
Malicious mind, when you're angry with your partner and you refused to be outspoken as to why you are vexed....in spread, you assume he/she knows. That's wrong. Learn to be outspoken.



3. Be mad at me, but don't broadcast it to others. Cover me
Some people are used to announcing out their flaws of their publicly. When your partner makes little mistake, you take it out to the streets and starts asking crying out to people to go and correct or talk to him/her. This is tremendously wrong. Learn to iron out misunderstandings in pillow talks.



4. Be mad at me, but don't forget the many good things about me. Be objective and fair
Do not allow one simple error to destroy the 1,000,000 goods that I have done in the past. Alas, do not capitalize on my simple mistake.



5. Be mad at me, but also remember the many other times I have forgiven you
I know I am not perfect, neither are you. The reason I always place understanding first and forgive. We should learn from each other.



6. Be mad at me, but don't give me silent treatment. Keep the communication lines open
Communication is the soul of every relationship. When you kill communication, you are killing the vibe that makes up the relationship/marriage.



7. Be mad at me, but don't use it as an excuse to cheat on me
A lot of people miss the key and then fall into cheating trap as the ends of "me and my partner are quarrelling. It's wrong. This doesn't brings hearts together, it separates hearts.



8. Be mad at me, but don't hurt me to even the score. Love doesn't revenge
Payback is not a step in relationship. Don't give payback a chance in your entire life. Just let go allow the law of karma to play its part.



9. Be mad at me, but don't stay mad for long. Let's sort this out quickly 
Combining points 1-8 make 9 possible. Communicate, forgive, avoid anger, don't gossip me, etc and life will be soft for us.



10. Be mad at me, but don't stop praying for me. I still need your prayers
Prayer they say is thr key. Prayer from your partner is the master key. No matter how mad your should be, never stop to making him your priority to God.



11. Be mad at me, but don't threaten to quit what we have. Ending it is not the solution
Anger like I said earlier has end more relationship than cheating. Don't just end what you've been building because of one minute anger.



12. Be mad at me, but don't punish me using sex. Let's keep intimacy special, don't weaponize it
This is synonymous with women. This is not a weapon, it is a disaster. It is an intimate killer. Quit using it.



13. Be mad at me, but don't keep reminding me of things you said you forgave me for
References to old faults bring sad memories. Let's not make it a habit.



14. Be mad at me, but don't develop a bad attitude or view of yourself. I take responsibility for offending you, let's make us work 

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