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4 Reasons Why Love Is Never Enough

Love is a feeling of good for the loved. When you love someone you want to do them well, be there for them, you want to make them happy. Most relations in the world are based on love. Truth is that love isn’t enough, because you can date someone you don’t love and still be committed. You can also love someone deeply and never want to date that person.

Reasons why love isn’t enough

1.    Love doesn’t last forever

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Have you ever truly loved someone that you felt you couldn’t live without, someone who made you feel like the world was beneath you? Are you still in love with them now? For some people, the answer is yes but for most, you have had so many such people. It is quick to come but also quick to leave too. You start dating someone you love and then just like that one day you realize you don’t love them anymore and it has nothing to do with them or what they did or didn’t do. Love isn’t a forever feeling, it comes and goes.


2.    Love is a feeling

Feelings are great but they are not actions, they make you want to act but they are not actions. When you love something it does not in any way mean that you want it. You may love it because it’s lovable. There are so many other factors that determine whether or not you want something. Foodies love food but they don’t want food every time. They want it when they are hungry. Even if you have a craving and access to the food if you are full, there’s no way you will eat it. You love it, but you can’t have it. Love is a feeling, just because I feel it doesn’t mean I want to do anything about it.


3.    Love is baseless

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They say that true love is one that is based on nothing, but we all know that as humans we can never truly love someone for no reason at all. Now if we love people for a reason or a bunch of reason and people are subject to change and that change could make them lose the things we love about them then what would our love be based on. The basis of love is either on nothing which is impossible for most humans or on something that is subject to change which means that in reality there is really no base for love in the long run.


4.    People in love still cheat

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The idea that when someone loves you they will never cheat is a mirage. Cheating happens even when there is love in relationships, it goes beyond the feelings that exist, sex is something you can do even though you don’t love the person, it’s more like a transaction. They love you but then they still cheated on you, relationships with love would still crash if there is cheating involved irrespective of the love.

Have you ever being in any of these situations? Which one did you experience?
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