Relationship of nowadays seems more like child's play. People go in and out of it as if it is a public toilet where exit and entry is not restricted to anyone.
I'm stuck in a generation where the word Love is referred to as normal word and sex seems to be as free as the air we breath.
This has given so many good girls who in words fall for a guy only for her to find out later that he's nothing but a player. Doubt to end up with the right guy will become a problem to her in the latter days.
But fr those who really want to get into a serious relationship with a guy or lady, these five (5) rules should guide you if applied properly.
1. Stay Faithful
Being faithful is one problem mostly guys have in a relationship.
Yes, both male and female cheat in a relationship but it is estimated that the male is 73% a cheater than the female.
This seems true as most married men are always caught around with young ladies of different caliber, background and lifestyle.
Ladies are one of the easiest creature to control but most difficult to handle, but when you handle them with care, I bet you'll never regret you did.
Love them, respect them, be faithful to them, make them to trust you and they are ready to give all they have for you.
When you're faithful to your partner, he/she is ready to walk any miles for you just to make sure you're happy with them. Being faithful in a relationship helps to build a stronger and better home, future and togetherness.
Try it and set out the result.
2. Make Them Feel Wanted.
There was a couple, whenever they go for a party or social gathering, the husband is always seen behind the wife who is always at the front. This gives people signs of unwanted between the couple.
Don't be shy to walk, talk, flirt with your partner in public. Your being together is not an indoor case but also to the whole world to feel your trace of love.
Make people feel jealous and perhaps learn to copy your love style. Hold hands when you walk in public, smile at each other, make yourselves feel comfortable being around each other.
3. Respect Your Partner.
Respect they say is reciprocal.
Respect me and I'll respect you in return. Respect in relationship is very important because it opens the door of love, togetherness and likeness for both partner.
Respect opens doors to riches, happiness, joy, togetherness not just in relationship alone but also in marriage.
Couples that fails to apply respect to their home will end up disgracing each other every day. Both at home and in public.
4. Don't Flirt With Others.
Flirting, the raiser of jealousy.
A lady once told me "I can't stand him flirt with other girls in my presence, I'll pour them acid". This is the extent that jealousy can cause someone to do.
"Don't mess with a jealous person, they are ready to remove the water from the coconut without breaking the shell." Paul-M.O Isodhe
Men are fond of this habit, flirting with other girls even in the presence of the women. Keeping their eyes from the slay queens is a problem to them.
For you to maintain a good relationship with someone, avoid flirting.
5. Make Time
Time is very important not just to those falling in live but also those in love, not just for those in relationship but also to those that are married.
Make time with your partner, it is as important as making money into your wallet.
No matter how busy you are, know when to be with your partner, know when your presence is needed by them and make them understand when you need them around you.
Make time to go out, have fun, play games, gist, and laugh together. Life is worth the happiness.
Wishing you all the best.
Seasons greetings.!
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